We hear a lot these days about the rich and how horrible they are and how they get all the breaks. But today, I want to let you in on a little secret. Most Americans voluntarily give their money to the rich every day. “What???” You might say? “No way! People do not voluntarily give their money to the rich! People struggle! People suffer financially! They don’t choose to do this!” To this I say “Yeah way. Every. Single. Day. People line up and voluntarily give their money to the richest among us.”
“How can this be?” you might ask. First, let me tell you a
little about myself. My husband and I got married very young, had a baby right
away, had no college educations (still don’t-although I am working to change
that) and were dirt poor. We did not rely on our parents to help us out and
it was tough. Over thirty years later, after many bumps in the road (lost jobs,
cancer etc.), we own a thriving business and are doing well. If we had listened
to the people who claimed we were victims of circumstance, with no hope, we
never could have gotten to where we are now. Through hard work, smarts, force
of will and the blessings of God, we have what we have now.
It is true that you can’t control everything and sometimes things are beyond your control. But there are
things you can control and that is what I want to talk about now. What you can
control is this: Stop feeling like a victim and stop giving your money to the
rich.
Step one: Stop throwing your money away on things that are
not necessary. Let’s pretend that you don’t spend $5.00 (Starbucks) a day on
coffee but just $1.00 a day. You might even think you are being frugal! That
$1.00 cup of coffee you get from the convenience store every morning is unnecessary.
($30.00 a month! Brew your own at home!) That $5.00 lunch you get 6 times a
month is unnecessary. ($30.00 a month! Pack it from home) Whatever and wherever
you spend money on unnecessary things, figure it out and change your routine.
Then comes step two.
Step two: So, let’s say you didn’t buy that coffee or that
lunch this month. You just saved $60.00 a month! Now, let’s say you have a
credit card balance.
According to Money “On average, an American between the ages of 18 and 65 has $4,717 of
credit card debt. According to CreditCards.com, the average credit card’s
interest rate is 15%. At the minimum payment of $189, it’ll take 10 years and a
month to pay off that $4,717. The total payments would amount to $22,869.
That’s a $18,155 cost for a very small loan.” http://time.com/money/4213757/average-american-credit-card-debt/This is talking about the average American. That is a singular person, not a
family. According to CNN, the average American family owes $8377 in credit card
debt alone. So, if you as a single person, had a credit card debt of $4717 at
15% interest rate and paid the minimum every month, you would pay an extra
$18,155 for the privilege of having that debt. This is how millions of
Americans give money to the rich every single day. By choice! “But it’s not a
choice!” you say! And I say “It is a choice when you continue to buy that $1.00
coffee every day instead of brewing your own. Instead, you could be paying off
that debt ahead of schedule and it is very important that you do not charge
anything else!”
Americans
give money to the rich every day with interest on house payments, car payments,
student loan payments, credit card debt etc. etc. Admittedly *some* of that is
necessary. But Americans give money away like floats throw candy away at
parades and then complain about the rich having all the money.
The way to
get ahead is to change your think into a thunk. Instead of *thinking* the way
most Americans do, say “I thunk that”. Past tense.
Americans
are rich beyond measure. We are rich beyond many societies of the past and
present. Our problem is less one of not having enough than managing it well.
Yes, there are some who truly struggle. I know. I did too. But giving your
money to the rich is not a way to win this game. Once you tighten your belt and
learn to stop giving your money away and get your debt paid down, you will see
how fast it can grow. Then….
Step three:
Once you stop giving your money away to the rich, you can invest your expendable
income and your money can grow!
I hope with
the new tax bill breaks coming up that people will not give their extra money
to the rich and instead invest it into themselves. I hope instead of taking
that extra vacation, buying those extra clothes, buying that TV etc. that
Americans will instead to choose to get rid of debt and make wise choices for themselves.
Change your
think into a thunk and stop giving to the rich!
Happy
Savings!
I love your changing your think into a thunk series Lynne, because I know you have practiced what you preach, and it works!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Marilyn. I'm glad you enjoy it!
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